12 month sleep regression

Sleep regressions, do they ever end?  Fortunately, yes around 2 years of age!  You have already beaten the 4-6 months sleep regression (cat napping at its finest), the 9 month sleep regression (hello, separation anxiety) and now you’ve made it to their first birthday (Hello 12 month sleep regression!) and want to celebrate, but everything has gone haywire and your previously great sleeper is now frequently night waking and shortening/refusing day naps…what’s going on!!!!

I have recently dealt with this regression with my youngest and even as a sleep consultant, I was questioning myself if we were going to make it through alive and with my sanity intact, well as intact as it has been since having children.

What is the 12 month sleep regression and why is it so big?

12 month sleep regression

Your little baby, as much as you don’t want to admit it is growing up and becoming a little toddler.  They become so much more aware of the world and their role in it and need to explore it each and every day.  There is so much happening in their little growing brains as they begin to take their first steps and are starting to communicate their wants and needs (rather insistently too!), all of this compounds into the 12 month sleep regression.

Here are my top 3 tips for surviving:

Don’t drop to 1 nap

So often when the 12 month sleep regression hits, typically anywhere from 11 months onwards it shows itself as nap refusal – usually the second nap and parents believe this is a sign that they are ready to drop to 1 nap.  Don’t do it!  Most babies are not ready to drop to 1 nap until between 15-18 months of age.  Push through the nap refusal by continuing to put your baby down at the same time of day for the same length of time, if they rest – that’s great, if they go to sleep – total bonus! Which lead me to our next point.

Consistency- It wont last forever

Sleep regressions typically last between 2-6 weeks (this stands for the 12 month sleep regression too) and are usually felt more heavily if you child has previously/is a poor sleeper.  You need to be consistent and patient (yes, this is very hard at 3am) with your sleep training approach.  If you start doing something different each time they wake up in an attempt to get them back to sleep quicker, it will last longer and they will bring a stronger resistance to the table as last time you gave in, for example, took them to your bed to sleep after 2 hours.  Babies, toddlers more so in particular, are much smarter than they are given credit at times and know if they push and don’t get a consistent response, will keep pushing until they get what they want.  So, in short, if they haven’t previously been rocked to sleep, had milk overnight for a long time or slept in your bed up until this point, now is not the time to start.  Lastly is something we question, is my baby normal?

Your baby is normal

Absolutely 110% yes, your baby is normal and will get through it and go back to their previously great healthy sleep habits.  Every baby goes through these regressions, just some babies feel it more strongly.  Be consistent, persistent and patient and you will go a long way on getting back to “normal” quickly, and the 12 month sleep regression will be a distant memory!

If you would like to book in for any one-on-one help, please do not hesitate to contact me.

Kelly Martin – Infant and Child Sleep Consultant

Baby Sleep Consultant Australia

Mobile: 0424 191 149 

Email: kelly@babysleepconsultant.com.au

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